I don't like posting chat logs on my blog and in this case it's not even mine.
A friend sent it to me, asking me (as I'm a Domme / Mistress / Goddess) if she had been at fault.
I read it and had a laugh! Seriously, again my thoughts about people in SL bdsm relationships have no idea what respect is and it's mostly an ego and sexual thing has been confirmed.
[04:15] Friend: Miss, my I comment on something?
[04:15] Miss: Sure, what is it?
[04:16] Friend: your groups, the dog thing groups. it kinda makes me feel sick Miss, and as we are still in our trail period I'm thinking that someone who is in that kind of thing isn't my type of Mistress
[04:17] Miss: I am just exploring.
[04:17] Friend: it's exploring a boundry too far for me Miss
[04:18] Miss: It is not something I am going to push onto you.
[04:18] Miss: If you don't like it, thats fine. I wont bring it up with you.
[04:19] Friend: well to be honest, it's also a boundry too far for the person I would like to be submit to. If you are in to animal sex Miss, you are not the person for me sorry.
[04:19] Friend: the whole idea just makes me gag
[04:20] Miss: Thats ok.
[04:20] Miss: Im not saying I am into it, but it is something I am looking at to get a better opinion in how I feel.
[04:20] Miss: I wont force any of it on you.
[04:21] Friend: I don't you understand me Miss, if you are in to animal sex I don't want to be your sub
[04:21] Miss: I am not into it.
[04:21] Friend: Sorry, Miss you told me you are exploring it
[04:22] Miss: Looking at it, but not trying it.
[04:22] Miss: I am seeing what people are doing, to get my own opinion
[04:24] Friend: Anyways Miss, I now have the feeling I'm not the girl for you and you are not the Mistress for me,sorry, I hope you will find someone else who can completely submit to you, but I guess it's not me. Take Care Miss
[04:24] Miss: Okay if thats what you want, but I think you have the wrong idea of what is going on and making a poor assumption of who I am. I feel a little insulted by this.
[04:26] Friend: I just follow my feeling Miss, if it's not good it's not good, maybe I'm wrong maybe I'm not but I can't submit if it doesn't feel good to me. Besides wasn't the purpose of this whole trail to get to know each other Miss and see if there is a click?
[04:27] Miss: Yes, and this would be the second time we've been together. I just started looking at these groups tonight, so it is not like its been months or weeks.
[04:27] Miss: and for you to tell me that you don't want to be with me, because of something I was looking at for one night seems rude.
[04:29] Friend: it's not rude Miss, everything inside me says sex with animals is BAD. So if someone is just looking in to it, it means there is an interest in something that goes beyond what I think is right. I could say, that for you not to accept the fact that things like that disgust me even when someone is just looking in to it, is kinda unrespectful towards me
[04:30] Friend: I've been in to BDSM for a long time Miss
[04:30] FRiend: RL that is
[04:30] Friend: and it's all about respect
[04:30] Miss: I didn't say I was interested in it.
[04:31] Miss: I had a discussion about it with a friend, and realized I knew nothing. So I looked into it to get an opinion.
[04:31] Miss: I never said I wanted to have sex with animals, and for you not to understand that was rude to me.
[04:32] Friend: Miss you are right, I'm rude.. really rude .. you don't want a rude sub
[04:32] Miss: I never said that
[04:33] Miss: but you did not give me a proper chance to explain what I was doing, then you jumped right to the assumption I wanted to have sex with animals and based an opinion on facts that were wrong
[04:33] Friend: well Miss you seem to asume things too, as I said that there must be an interest for dog sex on your side
[04:33] Second Life: User not online - message will be stored and delivered later.
(Later this person set her doggy cum sex goups on hidden) LMAO
This comes over to me that this Domme has major issues with rejection and respecting other people's feelings. See how she squirms from first admitting she is exploring dog sex to later come up with excuses she is not. Calling my friend RUDE, for assuming things but cleary not respecting her feelings about things like having sex with dogs. Seeing what people are doing with dogs, SL or RL tells me that a person doing that isn't apalled by it, like my friend is and that there must be a sexual curiosity for it, even if one decides to get involved with sick things like that or not.
So dear friend, you are so right rejecting this Domme if dog sex makes you sick to the stomach.
And yes, in my opinion you are right when you told me you had the feeling she was trying to blame you for her own sick mind and tried her best to squirm out the conversation.
Find yourself a real Domme / Dom!
Why would a person be in 3!!! dog sex groups if she is just reading up on things? You do not need to join a group for that, the internet is full of disgusting things like animal sex.