Monday, 16 May 2011

So.. about this partnering thing

This picture has absolutely nothing to do with this post. It's my sister Penny (left) and me (duck) hanging around at the Lucky Letter boards at Kira's

I've been partnered on SL several times... to the same guy.
I don't know why but it took the last time to realize that being partnered kinda takes the fun out of the game for me. Guys seem to be affraid to talk to you, your man becomes twice as attractive to other women when he has a ring on his finger, you get tipped less as a married stripper (well at least that is my experience).. anyways, I think one gets the picture.

So no more partnering for me. I'm still with my man and he with me but without the virtual ties or leash.
And it works, for me as well as for him. It's good to have someone you can trust and rely on.

The last few months I've been asked several times, by several guys either to partner or become their sub.
Being someone's sub for me is even worse than being partnered.
Main reason is that 90% of people on SL have totally NO clue what real BDSM is all about. They just think having a sub means always having a fuck available who does everything they want. Sometimes they even dare to call themselves Real Masters

I used to explain these people (when I ran into them) that in RL sex isn't the main ingredient of BDSM and that 90% of BDSM relationships don't even involve sex. It's a lifestyle, a state of mind ... not the state of your penis.

Well anywho.. you get my point.
No partnering, no Mastering me...


  1. Cool duck avatar... you can get a free rabbit avatar on marketplace.

  2. I got it! Ty for telling me Rayven!