Save the hassle IM ing me with that BS and go delete me from your freakin' friends list
I'm happy to be a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear.
But without all the drama please.
And beside if your Second Life is one big drama pit maybe you need to take a look in the mirror and wonder how you got there! There is also one very nice feature in SL that gets rid of all the drama queens around you. It's called MUTE